- Kiss and caress your lover passionately to get her juices flowing.
- Give her oral sex slowly teasing her vagina with your tongue.
- Gently pull back her clitoral hood.
- Stimulate it with your tongue until she reaches a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 0 to 10 with 10 being orgasm.
- Move away from the clitoris and stimulate the entire outside of her vagina in circular motions.
- Return to clitoris stimulation as above until she reaches a 9 on her pleasure scale.
- Ask her if she is ready for you to enter her vagina to find and stimulate her G-spot.
- Continue to stimulate her clitoris with your tongue, while tapping her G-spot with your finger(s) simultaneously.
- If all goes well, she will have a mind-blowing, face-melting internal and external orgasm resulting in multiple orgasms.
- Ask her for verbal feedback as you cup one of your hands over her vagina gently to hold the sexual energy within as if you're plugging the drain of a tub.
Friday, 21 May 2010
According to Dr. Ava Cadell there are 10 steps to a version of the Venus Butterfly technique: